I changed the title of my blog. I am definitely staying in the Army as long as I can, but the odds of my deployment are dwindling. At last drill the commander revised the deadline for the waiver to September 1.
As to what other people think: The admin NCO in our battalion cannot see any reason they would approve the waiver. Nobody knows me in the Pentagon and, more importantly, it's not like I have any unique skills. I would be going as a fueler or a ground mechanic. Either way, I am replaceable by 20-year-olds who need no waivers. But she does think I am likely to go. Because she has worked for Command Sergeant Major Christine for a long time and believes he gets whatever he really wants.
My wife thinks I lead a charmed life and if I want to go, I will go. I was laughing out loud when she said it, because most people would not consider going to Afghanistan the indication of a charmed life. I have been hearing lately from people who think the same. The editor of the magazine where I work said she thinks I will find some way to go. Two other friends at work think the same--and want me to back out. They think Afghanistan is going bad fast. I work at a place with real historians on staff. One of them even studies Middle Eastern early science. They all think we are about to get the same treatment as the Russians, the British and everyone else who tried to fix Afghanistan.
One editor friend visiting from Washington was very direct, both about the Afghanistan trip and the recent trouble we had with the teenage boy we were going to adopt. "You and your wife have done enough," she said. "Take care of the kids you have. You don't have to take in any more." Later on the subject of deploying she said, "We'll I'm glad you're not going. You should stay here."
I did not tell here our adoption of Xavier from Haiti just passed one of many paperwork hurdles.
Life remains interesting!